Saturday, April 12, 2025
Are you a Smart Lover?
Whether
you’re in love or not right now, have you ever wondered what kind of partner
you are? Sometimes you may find it difficult to talk to your partner because
you feel embarrassed and don’t want things to become unpleasant. The following
test is designed to make you stop and think about the issues you find
important. Go ahead! Answer the questionnaire and remember that no one is
watching or judging you.
1-
To you, love is
A)
Something complicated and overwhelming.
B)
A beautiful thing that only happens to others.
C)
A wonderful dream come true.
2-
What is most important to you in a relationship?
A)
Just sex. Nothing else!
B)
That your partner feels comfortable. Your needs come second.
C)
Intimacy, trust, tenderness, and everything that goes with them.
3-
When you’re in love
A)
You feel suffocated and feel you need space.
B)
You often miss your friends.
C)
You feel great and full of life!
4-
When you’re together
A)
Your partner makes the decision for both of you.
B)
You decide.
C)
Most of the time, you decide together.
5-
When there’s a problem in the relationship
A)
You say nothing because you’re afraid of getting dumped.
B)
You complain to a friend.
C)
You find the courage to discuss it with your partner.
6-
When you’re with your partner
A)
You feel uncomfortable.
B)
You feel shy at first, but gradually become comfortable.
C)
You feel great.
7-
When you look at yourself in the mirror
A)
You don’t like what you see.
B)
It’s not always a pretty picture, but some days are OK.
C)
You have good and bad days, but in general, you like what you see!
8-
You compliment your partner
A)
Rarely, Most of the time you criticize.
B)
Occasionally, when you feel like it.
C)
Often, because it comes easily to you.
9-
If you found out your partner was cheating on you
A)
You would break up.
B)
You would try to find someone else.
C)
You would calm down, take a deep breath, and discuss it with him or her.
10-
To you, a condom is
A)
Not something you use because you’re not afraid of dying of AIDS.
B)
Something that gets in the way of really good sex.
C)
A means of enjoying yourself without worry.
11-
What do you say to a partner who refuses to use a condom?
A)
It’s OK. I trust you. We don’t need one.
B)
If you care about me, we’ll use one.
C)
I know how we can have a great time without penetration.
12-
A doctor tells you that you have a sexually transmitted infection (STI).
A)
You ignore it.
B)
You continue having sex but now use a condom.
C)
You find the courage to notify any previous partners you’ve had in recent
months to see a doctor and from now on, no glove —no love.
Questionnaire Results:
Count the number of answers for each
category.
If you
answered mostly A:
For
you, love seems complicated. You find it difficult to be comfortable in a love
relationship. Don’t worry. Once you’ve had a few good experiences, you’ll learn
to open up more. There are no hopeless cases.
If you
answered mostly B:
Congratulations!
You’ve got some good qualities that will make you very successful in
love. If you pay more attention to yourself and others, love will reward you.
If you
answered mostly C:
Excellent!
You answered with great sensitivity. If your answers reflect your attitude
toward love, you’re a very special person to be with.
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