Top tips for succeeding at dating:
A.
Don’t limit your
conversation to talking about yourself. Instead discuss other things such as
popular culture, music or television. You will achieve a fuller insight into
your date's personality as the conversation will be less scripted.
B. Don’t discuss
religion or politics; it’s always a recipe for disaster. Keep things light,
you’ve only got three minutes.
C.
Reveal something
about yourself. The process of confiding is like a mutual striptease. If you
give something away, the chances are your date will reveal something in
response.
D. Be broad-minded.
You might not feel an instant physical attraction but personalities can be just
as attractive.
E.
Don’t eat or drink
too much beforehand. Flirting on a full stomach can slow down your responses.
You need to be quick-witted.
F. Watch out for
mixed messages. Body language can be ambiguous and a lot of people give off
bogus come-hither looks, when they don’t mean to.
G.
Show your sense of
humor. Everyone likes to meet someone who makes them laugh.
H. Don’t butt in.
The ability to listen is really important in a speed dating situation. It's no
good spending the entire three minutes talking about you.
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