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Relating to your former partner

Posted by Unknown ~ Wednesday, 5 March 2014

Some people believe when they separate they will no longer have to deal with their former partner. But if you have children, this is not possible – you remain linked forever as parents.

The challenge is to make the ongoing parenting relationship as manageable and as constructive as possible. Be civil to your former partner, irrespective of how he approaches you, but never compromise safety.

Constructive co-parenting involves establishing a businesslike relationship with your former partner. Here are some practical tips to assist you.

  • Remember to keep your goals uppermost.
  • Focus on the children, not the past relationship.
  • Hold meetings at a neutral location if possible.
  • Use the telephone, email or a communication book if face-to-face discussion is a problem.
  • Consider legal advice, mediation or counseling if you have difficulties.
  • Be flexible. Children have commitments and special occasions will arise.
  • Do not breach or allow any breach of a court order that prohibits contact with your former partner.

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