Monday, April 14, 2025
Ten Proven Tips for women to enhance Love Life
We all need more love in our lives. The best way
to turn your sexual experiences into loving experiences is to improve your
sexual skill level. Through the mastery of skill, sex becomes lovemaking. This basic idea, that more skillful sex creates
more pleasure, which then creates more love, is important for having a successful
relationship.
Remember that every time you bring a new
skill into the bedroom it is best to practice it several times, as skills
require repetition. Everyone is clumsy the first few times. Have fun exploring
these suggestions for more pleasurable, intimate lovemaking!
The
“TO DO’S” for women
1) Do learn to respect your body’s sexual readiness.
If your body is not aroused enough for sexual activity, let him know. It is
even more important to let yourself know. The pace at which your body opens is
sacred and worthy of patience and respect. It may open slower than his body. If
you are ready for sex before he is, or are finished before he is, that is also
to be respected.
2) Do bear in mind that beginning the sexual act
needs to feel safe for you. Being on the receiving end initially can be
frightening. Make a point of developing a long term trust with your man so it
is easier for you to feel emotionally and sexually available when he initiates.
This is a joint project but is primarily your responsibility.
3) Do let him know when you want to make love with him even if
he is busy with other things. Just opening
that dynamic is healthy for you both. There is no greater aphrodisiac for a man
than to know that his woman wants him! Use
your Yin energy to convert his state of mind into
a sexual one. Get seductive. Be honest about your needs and empathetic about his if he honestly feels too much
work pressure to be sexual.
4) Do expect that you will need to teach him how to make sex
work well for you and enter the sexual act with that in mind. The best time to
help him become our romantic hero is when you are relaxed and alone together
though not necessarily in bed. Try a private dinner with candlelight to share
the secrets of your desires and fantasies.
5) Do allow yourself to take on the YANG (assertive and
initiating) role in the sex act, thus trading responsibilities with your man.
It will help make sex very exciting. Men love being invited into sex by a hot
blooded partner even if the roles change later on.
6) Do participate in the level of sexual expression you can
truly enjoy at any given moment while appreciating that it is your man’s job to
help you stretch into new sexual territory.
7) Do give him feedback so he knows how to give to you more effectively.
8) Do let him know what you like about his sexuality and how he
shares it with you.
9) Do confront him if he is avoiding intimacy by avoiding sex or
vice versa.
10) Do let your man fix what is bothering you about your sex
life, if he can. Men love to fix things and they are generally very honest
about loving sex. Present the problem to him in a manner that helps him feel he
can fix it. He is not the problem, a certain activity or behavior is. He can
more easily change a behavior or activity than he can change himself.
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